Dheki's+Pet+Peeve

"Am I really supposed to care what she said to you?!

Since when have I become a shrink? I absolutely hate when people talk to me about thing I really don’t want to know. If you really need to get something off your chest, put it in a diary or a journal or something. I know sometimes I can help with certain things and peoples problems, but if you keep coming back to me everyday. Eventually I would get mad and probably not help you with anything.

Like one time, my friend was going through something in her life and it seemed like she was having new problems everyday. I was so sick of helping her. I really wanted to help her but i couldn’t keep giving her advice 24/7. Her and her boyfriend where arguing and she told me that she really didn’t want to be with him anymore. There was one problem; she loved him with all her heart. I told her "If you really love him then stay with him no matter how mad he makes you." Se thanked me and walked away. The very next day she came back to me with a different problem and i had to tell her that I didn’t have anything to say about what she told me. She expected me to help her with every issue she had. NO! I’m not. I’m only a human I can’t solve every problem in your brain.

It really started to get on my nerves but I have no choice to help people that I know. I’m really not that good at this but I do what I can. If you really need to talk to someone about things you are going through, then can come to me, just not with every single problem you could think of.